A Long Stroll To Nowhere

posted by Janet on 2010.08.22, under Culture, Travel
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I’m taking a long fucking stroll to nowhere. It’s been over 6 months of funemployment and I’m still surviving. Thriving. But how do you move across the world with no money, no job, and survive? I know my circumstances are unique. Not everyone can just up and move across the world. Quit their jobs, sell their possessions. I flew to Asia with less than $1,000 to my name and no plans on when to return. Is it clueless? Is it stupid? Is it crazy? I got more funds since then but the need for funds to keep me afloat is daunting my sense of time and space. With November looming ahead, my student loans which are currently frozen, will begin again.

I can’t speak for others, but I can only provide my own experience. With no formal plans on my travel adventures, I found myself in situations that provided me the most optimal ways of living and traveling on the cheap.

Traveling on the Cheap

For four months, I’ve been living in Buddhist temples to study Mandarin Chinese, Buddhism, and practice meditation. This zen retreat program has been entirely free of charge and I’m grateful for the experience. It has been life changing and I can honestly say that I feel like a new woman. More on that later. Living under the monastery walls has kept me well fed, a budding vegetarian, and my basic needs taken care of, and then some. For four months, my spending has been next to none. Small monthly allowances were given, and I felt a sense of productivity, responsibility and minor volunteering that could carry over as skills in the “real world”.

On August 6th, having been associated with the temple, I got an opportunity to fly to Taiwan where I’m currently at, and attend an International Youth Seminar Buddhist conference at the headquarter monastery for the Buddhist organization that sponsored the zen retreat. The cost of the plane ticket was the only expense I needed to worry about which is a lot cheaper since I’m already in SE Asia. Some spending money for Taiwan was provided by the temple, as well as a scholarship grant of $300 from the conference (an unexpected surprise) that covered the cost of my plane ticket and then some. Yes, I’m bragging, but this experience has been entirely FREE.

Couchsurfing

For those who are unenlightened, couchsurfing is a website network that links travelers together for free accommodations and newfound friends. The idea of sleeping at a stranger’s home might sound weary to some, but the site is set up like a Facebook page for travelers. People can add comments about each other to review their experience and rate you as “positive” or “negative”. The more positive reviews you get, the more trustworthy you seem to others. The network also has an optional system for validating your identities. The opportunity to meet new people–strangers–means the opportunity for making friends.

While I have little personal experience with couchsurfing, I have met many avid couchsurfers who travel solely using this network and live by it as a valid nomad lifestyle. It is a great way to share cultures, make new friends, and travel cheaply.

Freelancing

Freelancing keeps me afloat and gives me enough funds to survive, though not enough to live on should I decide to go back to the decadent American lifestyle. My skills are already set and primed for a travel/nomad lifestyle. Everything I can do is online-based. From web design, social media, graphic design and writing, the myriad of options that I have are optimal for all sorts of projects. Now I just have to implement them, start working, build up my funds to travel sufficiently, and start moving again.

A Long Stroll to Nowhere

The longer I’m in Asia, the more the nomadic lifestyle appeals to me as a longer-term way of life. No permanent address, but “homebases” in the Philippines and Oregon, where my family lives, respectively. It’s a dynamic way to live. Where complacency and being static and “settling down” are scary concepts for me, the exact opposite is where my heart is. Home isn’t a place for me now, but a sense of contentedness in people and my changing surroundings.

I prefer slower travel. Staying in one place from six months to one year at a time. Hopping around and exploring each countries’ surroundings while finding a temporary base to live. Sometimes, I feel like a loser at life because I don’t have anything that I could call a “career” at this point, and my state of confusion over what to do with my life is constantly on my mind. But what I’m doing now is perfect, and at the end of the day, I still have a roof over my head and food to eat. I don’t aspire for material wealth, and poverty is a choice. My life is new and exciting every day, filled with good people and lots of laughter. I’m rarely alone, and rarely lonely. I can’t say I have much to complain about.

Janet

Janet is a nomad based in SE Asia.

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5 Responses to “A Long Stroll To Nowhere”

  1. Als Simmons says:

    Amazing! I’m definitely gonna check out couchsurfing!

    It’s really an advantage that your have skills that you can freelance.

    I’m back to the reality of working, but my heart is still a hippy wanderer.

    Looking forward to hear more of ur tips and adventures!

  2. Kristan says:

    I just started reading Eat, Pray, Love, and your journey reminds me a lot of that (or vice versa). I also love that you discuss how inexpensively you can do this, because I know Elizabeth Gilbert gets a lot of flack for that (“Oh sure, of course she found herself! But who can afford to take a year off? Privileged white women, that’s who.”)

    The truth is, people make a lot of excuses (including me). But not you, Floreta. And that’s amazing. I love reading about your adventures, your bravery, and your revelations. Thanks for letting us come along vicariously. :)

    • Janet says:

      oh man, i read that book before traveling and i totally relate to it! i did back then too, but the way my life is unfolding is such an “eat pray love” adventure.. it’s amazing! i always like to say i’m having an eat, pray love adventure, but i’m at the pray part… i can feel that maybe love will come sooner or later… :X at least casually. haha. no matter how cheaply you travel though, i still believe it’s a luxury, by default. people who are in poverty, real poverty, can’t afford the lifestyle.. but there are a lot of ways to travel for cheap!

  3. Eureka says:

    I honestly admire you for doing that. It can be scary for most people especially for a woman to travel to various countries by herself the way you do, but you stand out. I have always wanted to do something on my own, and you definitely inspire me. Thanks. =)

    • Janet says:

      thanks so much for the comment! Even though I’m traveling “alone”, I am never alone! I came to Asia by myself, yes.. But I joined a volunteer group while I was in India, and I always make a point to try to find others to travel with when I’m going somewhere. When I went to Taiwan, it was a completely organized trip and everyone from the Philippines all went together to represent the Philippines during the conference. We were probably the most organized country out of all the participants! I guess what I’m trying to say is even if you choose to travel solo, you can always find people around you so you’re actually not solo at all! The advantage of still being a “solo” traveler is that you don’t have a partner to worry about or have to compromise plans for. You can just choose to do whatever YOU want to do, and then hopefully find other people doing the same!

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